I am definitely not normal Andrea :)
The more kids I have the happier I am, I am weird. I have programming but I find it so boring with just 5 kiddies because usually 1 or 2 of them are not ready for programming and with 3 you can't do any big group activities such as parachute play, duck duck goose, etc. That is where play dates were always fun, because 1 caregiver could run activities while 1 kept an eye on the little kids.
Having a double daycare would be so nice!!!!! I would love to have an assistant. I know from friends it isn't always fun, there are headaches to having an assistant, right now for me the grass is so much greener on the other side :)