Great....just Great!!

Mamma Mia, I am sorry to hear this. I don't know what they are thinking.... I guess they will find out...lol

Sorry you invested so much time in this family only to have it backfire so badly! Just remember, you are FULL if they come crawling back when it does not work.

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Originally Posted by Mamma_Mia

You know my dcg who's turning 1 next week? The one I've had since she was 8mos old and who screamed her head off all day long unless I held her? The one who still doesn't know to feed herself (finger food) or hold her own bottle? The one who will not play if I'm in the room but once I leave is into everything....I re-enter and she whimpers for me to pick her up.........yeah that one.

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Okay, time for Judy the "bitch" as I have often been called but................. ..this is exactly why I will NOT keep kids who can't come into care and transition within a normal time frame. I will NOT invest time and energy and frustration and anxiety and suffer pure HELL for months on end for ANY kid. Because, in the end, regardless of how much YOU (and the rest of the kids in care) have suffered and compromised the parents still do not appreciate you or understand the investment you have made when you could have terminated and took on an "normal, easy" kid.

Nope, this is why I will not do SPECIAL or keep a kid who is not working in care. WE are the only ones who ever pay for that.

Holy Crap Judy --the world is ending...I like the point you made here :) But so sorry this happened you Mamma

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Originally Posted by Momof4

Maybe it's a blessing in disguise and I hope if they beg to come back you say NO!

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I'm secretly waiting for this to happen!!! Or "my rates have changed".....
The kicker is that she's been sleepy and congested all day today, the beginning signs of an illness coming - they don't believe in using anythingexcept for a humidifier when she's sick.....and they are to start there on Monday. It's going to be a "hello here is my daughter" "goodbye she's sick" LOL dad works 1.5hrs away and mom can't take any time off.....MUHAHAHHAHA

Ugh.... look for the silver lining here; good riddance!
You know that they would have continued to be nothin' but trouble. So adios to this headache of a family and yes, pity the "educational" program she will now be attending!!