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Thanks ladies for all your support!
I decided not to move out this weekend, although i did have all my clothes and sons clothes packed. My son is almost two and i just couldn't take him away from his dad even though he would see him every day. We will see how the rest of the month of june goes and if things dont get better between my husband and i, we are going to separate. I would move out because i can go live with my mom where my husband doesnt talk with his family and financially couldnt afford to get a hotel or another place to live. If it gets to us separating, i will be going back to work and putting my son in daycare three days a week (he has one day a week with his aunt and his dad doesnt work fridays).
thanks for all your support ladies, very much appreciated.
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Before making your plans I would contact a lawyer for sure to be sure all things are in writing.
Do not want to scare you but from experience with daycare families that have split I see some issues here that could be a problem down the road for you. If dad is still in the matrimonial home and one of his relatives is caring for the child one day a week he would stand a very good chance of getting custody of your son if he applied for it. You might want to consider that in making your plans.
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I think you've just received some very wise advice from playfelt. I strongly agree.
