Trace....Please ignore Island 29. She has only posted twice and with a post like that on this thread, is really coming off as a troll looking to pick a fight. If she is not, then she needs to hold her tongue, not you. This forum is a place for all things daycare and you have every right to question, comment and complain because that's what this online community is here for. I personally do not think you were complaining, or whining, simply questioning something that you find puzzling and frustrating. Island29 needs to learn to keep there comments respectful or keep their mouth shut. Please do not keep your thoughts on these subjects to yourself. As we all know there are diffence of opinions and we may not like all the responses but as long as people are not rude and remember to be curteous, then all will be well.