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I am relaxed. You're the one who made passive aggressive victim comments. Why would you think I was mad at you? I don't know you. You are just a name on a screen, whose opinion I don't agree with regarding this matter. You view doesn't wind me up, therefore I am not un-relaxed about it and therefore I don't need to relax. I am not mad because you are not significant in my world.
Stuns me that people think they are real beyond the realms of this forum, in the sense their view/opinions matter.
You commented on a public forum about your view. I responded with mine. That's what happens when you post publicly on a forum - you invite responses which might support your view or might disagree with your view. If you can't handle when someone disagrees, then maybe a public forum isn't the place to air your thoughts. Maybe muttering under your breath is better.
But surely you see that when you make passive-agressive comments in response to a reply you've instigated, that's childish? Surely if you just wanted validation, you should say that.
If you just want people to sympathize and whole-heartedly agree with you so you feel better, that's fine too. But you have to actually state that's what you are seeking because my crystal ball broke.
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Why the need to make everything about one opinion vs yours Rachael? We are all women who work hard, long hours. Sometimes we need to get stuff off our chest. This is where most of us do it. It's not about agreeing/disagreeing it's about offering support, and reading between the lines sometimes. You say you are relaxed but you attacked adaycarelady multiple times in your last post (you are quite passive aggressive yourself) and that just doesn't seem like something someone who is truly relaxed would do.
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Holy crap - why when someone is called for making a passive agressive comment, do certain providers here then attack the person the aggressive comment was made to?
In what world is defending yourself, the issue - I've never know such a strange mentality where the person who makes the initial comment is backed and the person who calls them on it, isn't.
Is the issue truly that I am expected to ignore crap and when I don't, I am seen as the instigator?
When you have a day care child who makes snippy snide comments, and another kids tells them they are bang out of order, do you tell off the snippy kid or the second one for not putting up with it?
I'm mind blown with two people who think this way. Have at it.
Bullying!! Are you insane! You made a comment and you didn't like the fact I thought your were over reacting. Run to the mods - they can read. They can see who over reacted and made a snippy comment and who objected to it in return. #mindblown
