Help Help Help!!!

[Emma H]

I thought the whole idea of a forum was to get help on whatever topic a care giver was needing help with. By definition a forum is a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged. There is a difference between a forum and a conversation. The particular issue on this forum was the questions I was asking, not to have a debate about what someone considers a nanny because if I knew that I wouldn't have wasted my time posting my questions. I never said 34 was too old hence what I added at the end of that sentence.

MsBell are you in the Kitchener/Waterloo area?
I am in Kitchener and I feel like it's not the greatest part of Kitchener either. I do only charge 35 per day and get complaints how 35 is too expensive and that it's almost as much as rent. I hear this typically from majority of my families. I have seen that majority of daycare providers in Kitchener only charge 35 non organic but really do think for some people paying 5 extra dollars per day isn't worth it as some don't care for organic (which is fine it's not for everyone). When they complain I just get so confused because child care center in this area charge around 1400 for babies and 1000 for toddlers so I thought I was giving them a great deal lol

[bright sparks]

I thought the whole idea of a forum was to get help on whatever topic a care giver was needing help with. By definition a forum is a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged. There is a difference between a forum and a conversation. The particular issue on this forum was the questions I was asking, not to have a debate about what someone considers a nanny because if I knew that I wouldn't have wasted my time posting my questions.

You did get some answers pertaining to your particular enquiry though right? So because myself and others were not clear on an aspect of your post we weren't to ask for clarification and hold restraint to further enquire and learn about something? That seems a very unnatural form of dialoguing to me and not at all how this forum works and I imagine most others. It's a natural human characteristic to go off in other directions when in a dialogue. This is a pretty personal place where members become familiar and discuss multiple things. If a thread goes off on a massive tangent then generally, but not always, a member would start a new thread so as not to hijack a thread. That being said, it didn't happen in this case because of all the misunderstandings/misinterpreting of info that went on and members asking for further clarification. The discussion about the specifics on Nanny and what the title means was worth discussing if people learnt something from it which I certainly did. None of it was rude, it wasn't about right or wrong, it was about gaining new perspective and an appreciation and an understanding of how things aren't always as they may seem to one individual. I think that is exactly what a forum is about. This isn't a tech support forum with very impersonal specific answers. This is a place for a community of Childcare providers to share and learn and it seems only natural for that to mean sometimes going off topic.