Just wanted to update in case some of you didn't read on the other thread:

I sent out the email on Wednesday (long version), and one mama got back to me right away saying that she had zero problem with a 4th. I didn't hear back from the one who I knew would have a problem. So, Saturday, I texted her, asking if she received my email. She replied that yes she had. I said that I really hoped that she understood, and also that she wasn't going to bail. She said that although this was not her ideal situtation, her daughter was very happy and safe at my day home and as far as she was concerned, they were staying put. YAY!

I sincerely would have cried to have lost her little one. She's a caregiver's dream - 19 months old, rarely cries, naps a solid 2-2.5 hours, cute as a button, AND only weighs 20 lbs (lol that one was a bit of a joke, but your back and shoulders know what I mean at 5:30 on a Friday )