When do you say enough is enough

[mom-in-alberta]

If she is on her 4th dayhome in as many (or less) years.... then I would say one of two things is going on.
A) Mom and Dad don't have the tools to deal with this behaviour. They don't know what to do. If you think this is the case, and that they just need some guidance, then you can put together a detailed plan. "I will work with you IF: blah blah blah" List exactly what you expect. Put a timeline in place for improvement. End the relationship if none occurs.
OR (and I think this is more likely) B) they don't see a real problem and aren't doing a damn thing to change it. They have been asked to leave THREE childcare arrangements and they are still having the same issues? Puh-leeeze... In this case: Goodbye!

[momof5]

If she is on her 4th dayhome in as many (or less) years.... then I would say one of two things is going on.
A) Mom and Dad don't have the tools to deal with this behaviour. They don't know what to do. If you think this is the case, and that they just need some guidance, then you can put together a detailed plan. "I will work with you IF: blah blah blah" List exactly what you expect. Put a timeline in place for improvement. End the relationship if none occurs.
OR (and I think this is more likely) B) they don't see a real problem and aren't doing a damn thing to change it. They have been asked to leave THREE childcare arrangements and they are still having the same issues? Puh-leeeze... In this case: Goodbye!

Yes I'm the 4th dayhome now. I've spoken to the parents about her crying all day long, and being so disrespectful towards me, numerous times. It's gotten me no where. Today is a day from Hell with her, i'm telling mom at pu that with this crying, and how disrespectful she has been towards me today that i don't want her back on Monday! So far today i've been told i'm stupid, she hates me etc... And this is said almost every other day, but mom and dad seem to think that i can continue to put up with it. i'm at my breaking point now!