Why are they hiding....

[dodge__driver11]

And this is why I have my settings on.....

But that aside, can you write her a letter (email), stating that while you understand that she may be aprehensive about telling you--that open comunication with you is a must.....(in your own words)Leave your feelings out of it, and say that you would like to help her in any way you can with this transition...DO NOT FRIEND HER ON FACEBOOK...

That would not serve any purpose, it would only get you pissed off even more

[Mamma_Mia]

And this is why I have my settings on.....

But that aside, can you write her a letter (email), stating that while you understand that she may be aprehensive about telling you--that open comunication with you is a must.....(in your own words)Leave your feelings out of it, and say that you would like to help her in any way you can with this transition...DO NOT FRIEND HER ON FACEBOOK...

That would not serve any purpose, it would only get you pissed off even more

LIke I said above I wouldn't do any of those things...but it's fun to think "what if" sometimes LOL

And I know what you mean about FB settings....you can't even search my name and I like it that way. If I want you in my 'circle' I'll find you or I already have another way to keep in touch. I'm so anal about it, I check my setting about once a month to make sure nothing new was added that changed anything....