Thank you all for all your supportive words....I need some "back up" at times!!
I almost slipped....These are MY rules and you can not change them or TRY to make me feel guilty to change them.
The way I see it:
A) she said she went to the Dr today? so did she bring her puking child to a room full of pregnant women?
B) is on bed rest but allowed to work two weeks? - BullSh!t if you're put on bed rest it's NOW not in 2 weeks to be still working!!!
C) You said you can have 2 working weeks left but wont tell you're OB that dcg is still coming to daycare? - why? if you CAN work why would you hide THAT from your OB?
D) I'm sure I'll be fine - DO NOT try to guilt trip me!!!
So NO - now I'm mad and "how dare you"? I'm NOT going to talk about anything with her now...as long as I get my $, I don't care. She MAY just not show up tomorrow or ever....but it's a risk I'm willing to take.
I replied to her with "Oh geeze! I'm sorry to hear that. Bed rest sucks! Thank you for the 2 weeks notice, I'll miss ***** for sure! Can DAD or gma drop her off so you don't over do it?"