Helping parents understand

[apples and bananas]

Sounds like they may have the perception that you work for them. It may just be a personality that doesn't go with yours. Give it time, that might work itself out. I find that parents are often defensive at first, until they develop a trust. Especially with their first born.

[jec]

Sounds like they may have the perception that you work for them.

I think your right....and I created it.
I need to learn to just shut it and trust my self as Littledragon says.

Thanks ladies, I needed a little empowerment I'm feeling better. I need to learn to not give out so much info!!