At what point does the responsibility fall on the parent? A parent interviewing a dayhome should ask appropriate questions regarding how many other children in care and what are the ages of those children. The onus should be on the parent to determine if a situation is safe. I do not agree with this provider operating with this many children in this age group but... you have to think of the parents that have placed thier children into this womans care. What proirities are the parents placing ahead of saftey, because it is obvisious that saftey can not be the primary concern.