Agreed ... children need to be taught to sleep well ... they cry out / wake because it is 'natural' to do this but WE as the adults bring them fully awake / alert by going in to feed them or what not when in reality they were not 'hungry' it was just the natural sleep cycle to roll over come out of rem open eyes and than you are suppose to fall right back to sleep without even realizing you WERE awake .... IMO so many parents JUMP now to run look when babe cries out that THEY are the ones creating the sleep problems by disrupting the natural process ... give them a few minutes to fall back asleep on their own as long as they are making noise you know they are 'breathing' you do not need to go IN the room