Hello,

Have you considered giving her a half an hour to 1 hour nap. That way she gets a nap, but when you wake her up she will be cranky. See if mom is willing to compromise. Your descriptions sounds like she is a strong-willed child. Have you asked mom if she gives her a consistent schedule at home? Strong-willed children need it so they are aware of what the routine expectations are. How long does this child sleep for? Sounds like mom may need to develop a bit of backbone. Not easy if her personality and her child's very strong.