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[Emma H]

If you don't like my post why don't you just ignore it ?

[bright sparks]

If you don't like my post why don't you just ignore it ?

I can have a difference of opinion without getting all defensive so I don't need to ignore it. We can agree to disagree that's just fine....many of us do but we can still all contribute and get something out of it.

[Emma H]

Well then don't tell me that I should ignore everything. There are a few users on this site that are extremely rude (I don't think you are rude in anyway). I wasn't getting defensive I just felt like some people weren't as nice. My point was teachers and daycare providers as amazing people and it doesn't have to be Christmas to show them you appreciate.

[Emma H]

I can have a difference of opinion without getting all defensive so I don't need to ignore it. We can agree to disagree that's just fine....many of us do but we can still all contribute and get something out of it.

I received your message but its not letting me write back!!! I just wanted to let you know I read it and agree !! Sorry about the confusion

[Suzie_Homemaker]

# 41 - If I don't like something I will speak my mind we don't all need to ignore everything

# 45 - If you don't like my post why don't you just ignore it ?

LOL So if you don't like someone statement, it okay for you to state that and it okay for your personality type to not ignore and instead be moderator. Yet, anyone else must ignore and not comment on your post if they don't like?

Have I got that right?

Only you can have difference of opinion stated but anyone else state difference of opinion then they are attacking?

You say "calm down". You say "How Dare you" but you are not attacking and just stating difference of opinion that no one else may do?

As my nephew would say "The irony of that has to burn".

[Emma H]

LOL So if you don't like someone statement, it okay for you to state that and it okay for your personality type to not ignore and instead be moderator. Yet, anyone else must ignore and not comment on your post if they don't like?

Have I got that right?

Only you can have difference of opinion stated but anyone else state difference of opinion then they are attacking?

You say "calm down". You say "How Dare you" but you are not attacking and just stating difference of opinion that no one else may do?

As my nephew would say "The irony of that has to burn".

As I recall that was never talked about but thanks

[Suzie_Homemaker]

As I recall that was never talked about but thanks

I can help with the lack of recall.

Post #34

EXACTLY! I remember as a child my mom would get my teachers something every year for Christmas. People do this to show appreciation to the one person who looks after the most precious gift in their lives. No one said they expected anything or that they do this job because they expect gifts. The whole point in this thread is that the women got a bottle of used tanning lotion and people are attacking her HOW DARE YOU EXPECT GIFTS...calm down ....If money was an issue I'm pretty sure there is a dollar store that sells card for a buck..[/B]

You're most welcome.

[Emma H]

Suziehomemaker since you need an explanation for everything here it is...HOW DARE YOU wasn't meant in its literal context......calm down was directed for people who look into these threads a little too much...I felt in way people were being mean so I wanted to defend her as I would you if someone was mean to you even though I cant stand you...

I will not respond to you anymore because there is no point

Wine well needed

[Suzie_Homemaker]

Suziehomemaker since you need an explanation for everything here it is...HOW DARE YOU wasn't meant in its literal context......calm down was directed for people who look into these threads a little too much...I felt in way people were being mean so I wanted to defend her as I would you if someone was mean to you even though I cant stand you...

I will not respond to you anymore because there is no point

Wine well needed

I think that good idea since it seem okay and justified to you to defend imagined slights but your are first to insult and make situations personal. Maybe you apply own expectations to own behaviours.

I not need explanation nor ask for one. I just pointing out where you contradict yourself repeatedly to justify your words.

You claim not to recall, then you claim not to have really meaning the statement you make, you claim it okay for you not to ignore comment you over-react to but you not allow anyone else same right?

Why are we to blame when you contradict yourself and point it out or when we think you mean what you actually write? Surely you are at fault for poor logic and vocabulary? I guess easier to deflect blame and make victim shouts of attacks and meanness. Like teenagers. LOL That not on us, that on you.

I add you now to "ignore" list since you not really honest person with any accountability. :-)