Daycare dad arrested

[mamaof4]

Posting anonymously for a member:

kingstonkids - if you come back to the forum, I was wondering what happened with this situation.

Because... I found out this morning that the same thing happened last week with dcm and dcg. Dcm was apparently holding dcg (1yo) when there was an incident. Didn't get (or ask) for the details but CAS is involved and charges are being laid, etc. Dad lives far away (1.5 hrs) and has never been to my house but he does have my address. So dcm says he may show up. He's not supposed to but I told her that if he's determined. And of course I would call her.

It's all well and good to say, in theory, that if there's a court order in place preventing him from taking her, I can refuse, but the judge isn't sitting at my front step. And the cops aren't either. If I refused to send dcg out, and he were determined enough, he could break down my front door and after that...?