Looking for some opinions on toilet training

[Dreamalittledream]

I completely understand the not wanting to go back to diapers thing. Thoughts on a waterproof pant (or diaper) over his underwear or pants (& lots of changes of clothes, of course)...that way, you are not going against the routine at home and still saving the clean up at home. I too always explain to parents how much harder it is at daycare...they are often distracted in play; sometime they feel ownership over the toy they're playing with and don't want to leave the toy to go to the bathroom, we are busy and easily miss the cues/reminders....it goes on and on....
I wish you luck!
Once thing for sure...until the little one are completely ready to cooperate, it is all quite a struggle.

[bright sparks]

I completely understand the not wanting to go back to diapers thing. Thoughts on a waterproof pant (or diaper) over his underwear or pants (& lots of changes of clothes, of course)...that way, you are not going against the routine at home and still saving the clean up at home. I too always explain to parents how much harder it is at daycare...they are often distracted in play; sometime they feel ownership over the toy they're playing with and don't want to leave the toy to go to the bathroom, we are busy and easily miss the cues/reminders....it goes on and on....
I wish you luck!
Once thing for sure...until the little one are completely ready to cooperate, it is all quite a struggle.

Thanks, I think the waterproof pant would be a good idea for me, but I don't think it will help him. He almost needs to have the feeling of pee on his legs to get it, but then yesterday he did, but might as well not have. I am watching him like a hawk for any kind of cue but they just aren't there. If he has a water proof pant on, I'll have to check him as often as if he had a diaper on. If he is not telling me at all in any way that he has done something, that is a huge obstacle. Initially conditioning kids like this usually results in them going on demand eventually progressing to expressing their need themselves, but he won't even go when I put him on the potty or toilet so I'm stuck lol