I completely see what you're saying. The reason I let them stay is a) it was directly at nap time and one of the littles is my children that needs a nap. The parent is a teacher who works 35 minutes away and by the time she got here nap would be 1/2 over. I would rather not disturb my child as well when I am at an arena tonight with his brothers twice and a child who hasn't napped. So I let the other child stay since we were already exposed.

Should I be resending my sick policy to them? I would like to do it in a friendly manner, yet I want them to know I am dead serious that I am not putting up with this any more.