How would you handle this dcm?

[Secondtimearound]

I'm thinking unless you had changed her scheduled days , that you owe her the day . She is paying for it . If her schedule has been the same for years , I would have just asked to change your availability , then you know for sure second Fridays you are off , and she knows she can not use you .

[mattsmom]

I'm thinking unless you had changed her scheduled days , that you owe her the day . She is paying for it . If her schedule has been the same for years , I would have just asked to change your availability , then you know for sure second Fridays you are off , and she knows she can not use you .

The thing is that she had never said that she would need these Fridays. I was told that she had them off so she didn't need me those days. She even sends me the schedule for each month confirming that she is off those days. She just decided the day before that she needed the kids to be dropped off for a bit. I had made this specialist appointment weeks before and I wasn't about to cancel it and wait another month or two for another one.
I make appointments for these days so I wouldn't have to tell her and the other daycare parents to find other arrangements.