I agree mattsmom....I also do only 1 nap a day....otherwise we will be entertaining this 2 nap child in the afternoon while the others are sleeping....so we would get our WELL DESERVED break ..when? I just do it...I don't ask.....if they question it....I flat out tell them...a morning nap interferes with the schedule, and having 1 good nap in the afternoon works well...
I understand wanting a break! Fortunately, all mine (even the morning nappers) nap 2-2.5 hours in the afternoon! Lucky I am!!