Looking for some opinions on toilet training

[babydom]

I've had the same. Same age. Same gender. I unfortunately have a different policy. They must start training at home before I start at daycare. And they must go two wks accident free in pull ups before I do underwear. I can not do it any other way when I have four other kids. It is just to much on me and not fair to the other kids. So with my guy they trained in underwear at home and he was in pull ups here. Honestly what worked for me and every kid is different is I ignored it. I did not ask him if he needed to go I just took him every hr the first wk to sit. If he didn't do anything I did and said nothing. Got him off pulled up his pants returned him to play. The second wk I only took him on our bathroom times. Which are 930.1230. And 330. Again if he did nothing I did nothing. But after three wks he went and then we had a party. Yells and scream yay!!! You did it. Gave him a treat. He then went every time I put him on. All three times during the day. Till this day he still does not say he has to go. He just hold it till someone puts him on. That's just my experience. Good luck! Oh ya I also put underwear on him under his pull up. That way when he peed he felt the pee first in the wet underwear as just a pull up it absorbs it quickly and they don't feel it as much, like a diaper. Wet panties were sent home to wash.

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I've had the same. Same age. Same gender. I unfortunately have a different policy. They must start training at home before I start at daycare. And they must go two wks accident free in pull ups before I do underwear. I can not do it any other way when I have four other kids. It is just to much on me and not fair to the other kids. So with my guy they trained in underwear at home and he was in pull ups here. Honestly what worked for me and every kid is different is I ignored it. I did not ask him if he needed to go I just took him every hr the first wk to sit. If he didn't do anything I did and said nothing. Got him off pulled up his pants returned him to play. The second wk I only took him on our bathroom times. Which are 930.1230. And 330. Again if he did nothing I did nothing. But after three wks he went and then we had a party. Yells and scream yay!!! You did it. Gave him a treat. He then went every time I put him on. All three times during the day. Till this day he still does not say he has to go. He just hold it till someone puts him on. That's just my experience. Good luck! Oh ya I also put underwear on him under his pull up. That way when he peed he felt the pee first in the wet underwear as just a pull up it absorbs it quickly and they don't feel it as much, like a diaper. Wet panties were sent home to wash.

Re-read what I put. This kid has dry diapers for extended periods and his Nana did start training at home. That is not the question. My question is where do I go from now as things are today. What you are describing babydom doesn't sound anything out of the "ordinary" for toilet training, especially boys. This kid has delays and there is definitely something more going on with him which is why I am at a loss as to what to do.